Science of a First Kiss and first Spanking by Erina Lee, Ph.D & Cometospk

I have the pleasure to introduce you a spectacular scientist article from Blushing Paddles Group. This came to me through its "Digest Number 175", thanks to Ross who shared it with all the group. Originally titled "the Science of a first kiss", I have added a posterior spanking followed by the kiss. I hope you enjoy it...



He walks you to your door, wondering how things will end. You fumble for your keys, hidden by lipstick, a wallet, and the various contents of your purse. He shifts slightly, a little nervous, and thanks you for a great time. You smile sweetly, having found your keys, looking subtly at his lips. He leans in, brushing a stray lock of hair from your cheek, and then it happens—in an instant, your lips meet his. This be the yearned for ending by the most people, but we know this kiss hiddens something else, the previous step to open the doors of a perception world, spanking. We can have spanking a lot of times, but there´s nothing like "a first time spanking" with a loved couple. The experience of a first kiss can be emotionally momentous, thanks in no small part to the chemical and biological changes occurring in the body. As one starts to kiss, the nerve endings in the lips become more sensitive. Furthermore expectation that involves the following experience, that step to achieve spanking our beloved partner, a pact sealed with a kiss, fires our dopamine levels which is responsible of pleasure and motivation feelings, although the best known in this blog endorphines, responsibles of pleasure in pain , can give us an euphory sensation in our hearts. Phenylethylamine an alkaloid also found in chocolate is thought to influence mood and attention. The result, combination of kiss, yearning for the following spanking session and neurotransmitters are released throughout the body, they result in sensations of happiness, giddiness, and euphoria.
No wonder kissing feels so good. Meanwhile, the adrenal glands—part of the endocrine system located on top of the kidneys—are also stimulated. They are signaled to produce norepinephrine ( as a curiosity, this neurotransmitter come from tirosine and phenylalanine, this last presents in diet beverages as coke or pepsi light as sweetener) and epinephrine (that Dr. House use commonly). These chemicals are responsible for activating the sympathetic nervous system in response to external stressors. As a result, heart rate increases, pupils dilate, blood sugar elevates, and lipids break down in preparation to release more energy. Furthermore, with arousal, the hypothalamus may be stimulated to produce gonadotropin- releasing hormones, eventually leading to the production of testosterone in the testes and ovaries, which also enhances sexual desire. As the kissing intensifies, you become more excited; you feel your heart racing as you yearn for more. The chemicals also cause blood to move from the stomach to other muscles, including sexual organs as one becomes more aroused, this means a real profit for spankees because of the increasing of cardiac rate and vasodilator effect provokes perfusion and irrigation of erogenous zones, like buttocks, which decreases the risk of bruises and welts, so with love, spanking is better).
As people kiss, oxytocin, which is a hormone made in the hypothalamus and released from the pituitary gland near the base of the brain, also increases. Among many other functions, oxytocin is thought to reduce stress and increase feelings of connectedness. Don´t forget that we have no spanking experiences with anyone. Along with the endorphins, it is thought to influence feelings of happiness and attachment found in committed, loving relationships. Pheromones, which are chemical messages sent between members of the same species, may also play a part in human attraction. The vomeronasal organ, located between the nose and mouth, usually detects others’ pheromones. Although it is still unclear how they work, pheromones are thought to signal sexual arousal and increase attraction towards appropriate partners. You feel fantastic; the warmth and appeal for your date grows beyond your imagination and leaves you feeling closer than ever, soon you have a very good spanking session, and later, maybe a little bit of sex, the other way doesn´t work ;). He squeezes you tightly one last time before you begin to back away, neither of you aware of the internal changes and reactions that have just occurred in your bodies.
You barely remember the keys in your hand, as you thank him for a wonderful time. He smiles at you happily, already daydreaming about the few moments before. You unlock the door and slip inside, thinking...
"There's nothing like a first kiss, that precedes a good spanking session"

January Spankee

Once I´m back to the daily routine, my second post of 2008 is dedicated to Spankee of the month: January Contest. First of all I want to let you know the results of December. The winner is Rosaleen Young with the 29.6% of the votes, above a total of 169. November´s winner, Amelia Jane Rutherford (11.8%) has lowed to the third place. The second position is for Samantha Woodley (13.6%), and finally Amber Pixie Wells mantains fourth position with the 10.1 percent of the votes.
There are three new spankees instead of last three of December´s Contest, Kailee, Lisa and Linda who replace Kelly, Beverli Bacci and Kelly. Some changes are presented by the new contest: this month, poll is showed as a link in the left upper side bar, click on it, and it will guide us thru a new poll with images of the spankees.
January is a suitable month to enjoy spanking, stay in home and avoid January challenges...

You can vote in the left upper side poll. Choose your favorite spankee

HAPPY 2008!!!

I´ve been very busy during christmas, eating, celebrating and drinking a little bit ;) with my family and friends, so I haven´t time to write a post. Well, my Holidays are ending, and next week I will have time to write with the full force that a new year gives us.
Up until then, Happy 2008!!! I hope it will come plenty of love an

A Christmas Fairytale

Christmas is coming, but people is already celebrating it. I´ve wanted to write a little post before compromises catch me. Christmas is not such a special time for me , so I don´t go on: Be happy and enjoy whatever you can!
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Amber Pixie Wells

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A few very good reasons why you should be spanked

After a certain period of relax. I come back to write again and I wanna talk about the benefits of spanking on spankees and on their bottoms.
I´m not only talking about the pleasure but a real assessment.
I´m going to enumerate the most important , and I´m sure you´ll be able to tell me others that I don´remember now. There it goes!

1.- Happiness: The effect of spanking on the buttocks is very known here, cause we´ve discussed about it so many times. This effect over our nervous system, is in one aspect chemical and it´s produced by endorphines situated in the hypophysis and pituitary gland. These opiate peptides are endogenous, that means, are present in our organisms and we could say that are our natural variety of morphine, but without its pernicious effect.
They allow us to, stand the pain, and at the same time report us pleasure which depends on intensity of the activity we´re doing. If their liberation is too profuse, we can experiment a certain sort of hangover, due to a enzyme which organism liberates and that is responsible of the short life of the endorphines.

2.- Vasodilator effect: Spanking produces skin bottom warming which favours dilation of blood vessels. If spanking is not stern or harsh, it´s like a transdermal massage destroying and decreasing fat nodules. Spanking is specially effectives if it´s applied with the hand, because of implements can decrease epidermis thickness or oven destroy it, if smacks are too harsh.
So that, if you want to save money in dermatological cremes such as Shiseido´s or similars, go over your spanker´s lap, who gratuitously help you to prevent "orange skin"







3.- Fly away from stress: When spankee gives herself fully to her spanker, she escapes from real world, opening her mind to a fictitious experience. The real is not reality, and she only must be worried about feeling and enjoying the contact of spanker´s hand or intrument. It´s like "Nirvana", just only flying away by the experience, living with intensity every smack, every caress, every gesture, every word... Crying is most of times neither pain nor suffering, just a liberation of stress.




4.- Back to childhood: Spanking is a great way let our mind fly thru our child memories, and not only that, but when we were children we had more illusion, more passion about things we did, and of course innocence that we miss across the passing of life.
It´s very significant that a lot of roleplays are developed on childhood or teenage scenarios, like schoogirl-teacher, niece-uncle, coach-sportgirl that only can hold up in our deepest fantasies.









5.- Finally and absolutely the most important reason: it´s the only way to avoid repressing our spanko conscience, in spite of ups and downs that we suffer, it´s a part of us which came, como and will come with us through our life.
It´s a pity to repress and negate a part of our own nature which maybe one day could be descifrated by scientists.




As always, excuse me if there are some mistakes. I am still improving my English!!!

Spanking orgasm

Recently I have read on an english yahoo group this article that I consider very interesting.
I hope you read it carefully, and may extract a beautiful experience with your spanking couple.

There is a lot to be learned about this subject, but I would say that when my objective is to give the woman I am spanking an orgasm, I am successful over 95% of the time.

Since I feel that this is an important subject, let me share with you some of my insights which each of you may decide to incorporate or not depending upon your own preferences and the situations that you find yourself within.

The first step is setting the mood. The spankee must feel completely comfortable with you. Any fear that they she may have should only be fears that can be quickly mitigated during the spanking. The spankee should be completely confident in you and feel that you know what you are doing. Never say or do anything doing the build up to place any doubt in the spankee's mind, but instead, make them feel completely comfortable that you are in charge, that you are respectful, that you are there to enjoy the experience, and that you don't have a doubt in your mind what is going to happen.

Some spankee's want to role play or pretend that they are being placed into a particular set of circumstances. Attempt to pick up on this as quickly as possible and throw yourself into the appropriate role. Study anime relationships, Slave Girls of Gor, and read Janus or other magazines dedicated to understanding these roles.

Never ask but never command. Every step of the process should proceed with complete mutual respect. "You'll need to take those panties off as well" is 100 times more effective than, "Get your panties down now, bitch" (although in certain circumstance the latter is better).

Make use of extensive eye and body contact when placing the spankee over your lap or otherwise into the spanking position. Comfort the spankee with natural gestures, hugs, gently moving the face so she must stare into your eyes, ensuring that her body is well balanced over your knee, etc.

Once placed in the spanking position, rub the back, tell her how soft her hair is, admire her bottom, and do other things so that the spankee feels very special. Explain that this is going to be an erotic spanking. It is going to hurt a little in order to get you stimulated, but the hurt will quickly subside and you should move into a state of dreamy, blissful peace. If at any time, you feel uncomfortable to let you know as this is as much for your pleasure as it is for mine. If she should make a complaint, be very attentive, but very resolved that we need to get through the problem.

Note that some scenes require very little communications and others require quite a lot. Try to project yourself into the head of the spankee such that you can tell where her head is at throughout.

Don't spank too gently! She needs to feel it, but she doen't need to feel in pain. A smooth, moderately slow rhythm is needed.

Start by spanking all over the buttocks, but gradually move to focusing on the bottom of the buttocks and in the middle of the buttocks. Don't go too far down the legs. The spanks should transition from some initial sting to a totally stingless thud that can be felt throughout the spankees body. Place your non-spanking hand on the small of the back and manipulate the muscles there as they will be felt throughout the buttocks and well into the vagina.

If you do not have the spankee cumming after a few minute, politely ask if she would mind some light stimulation. Unless she disagrees, interupt the spanking and place two fingers into her vagina, hand down and stimulate her G-Spot (this is rarely required for most women who are into spanking, but it usually breaks the dam on the hard cases). Go back to spanking and alternate as needed.

Don't stop after the first orgasm. Make her cum a number of times until her body is shaking from the orgasms. Give her plenty of head space without interruptions so that she can truly enjoy the experience. Don't spank harder to add additional orgasms, but make it appear that you are doing so. Breath hard, appear to be fully exerting yourself, and appear to be about to cum yourself to enhance her experience.

Best regards,
Uncle Larry

Spanking in Videogames

I don´t know if exists a post that compiles Spanking in videogames in any Blog. Since I was child, I´m getting into playing videogames, from different platforms like primitive Spectrum, Atari, Master system, Mega Drive, PC (Dos and windows games), PS1, PS2, XBOX and XBOX360.
I don´t spend a lot of time playing, but when I find a good game, I can spend all of my free-time playing it.
So many years, and from an early age, have allow me to come with computing from its Stone Age to now. There are some games in which spanking appears, here you have:

• God of Hand: Avalaible for Ps2. A Beat´Em Up Classic, this means you need to fight with all people bump into. But this game is particularly special, we can spank our opponent
• 7 Sins: An spicy game for PS2 and PC. The main aim of this game is to get people make love with you, get a spanking, or take her or him to the dungeon. We can choose a lot of characters and there are some interested in spanking.
  

• Larry: Leisure City Magna Cum Laude 8. A good old classic game. The last edition have a lot of features, including spanking. At the university we´ll meet a lot of girls, and of course some spankees...
  

I have only found one video, but at least there are two spankees more. Here you can watch their photos.
Sally Mae, a young farm girl. She looks like as a country singer. She loves the paddle and OTK spankings

Suzi



Harriet:

• The Spanking Machine: This a good recreational machine, which allows us to spank people who make our life miserable. If virtual spanking exists, must be this machine. We can choose between 8 characters

• Tales of Symphonia: we can´t interactuate in this game
• Smackdown VS raw: An amazing wrestle game. Like in a real life, it´s possible to spank the opponent
• Finally, this game is not created yet, but game great master Hideo Kojima, esencially creator of the Metal Gear saga, seems to want developing a spanking simulator for DS. Here you can read the New
  

Spankee´s Olympus

"As you look pretty, you are going to be arrogant"This is a phrase extracted to a spanish rumba song by "Los chichos.
They didn´t know what happen to arrogant spankees: their haughtiness bring them a journey to spanker´s knees.
I was really lazy these latest days, but today I feel more active.
I want to dedicate this post to spankees, who make this game possible, and of course those who have became in part of my erotic legend.
I have seen lot of spankees, but only these ten, are into my Spankee´s Olympus. I have the pleasure to introduce you to:

Debbie: She was the first spankee I remember, I was catched by her photoseries and minimovies recorded in 8mm. It was a pity she withdrawed from spanking scene in 1984 . Today, it´s possible seing pictures of her. She shooted for Nu-West Leda






































Rosaleen Young: One of those marvellous spankees, and probably one of the few who seems to enjoy filming videos. It seems that she´s retired fro the scene. There are a lot of spankos, including me, who will be happy if she returns. She shooted films for FirmHand and Spanking Online



































Samantha Woodley: The most beauty spankee in the scene to me, now. She´s an enthusiast fan of OTK spankings, and doesn´t disdain using implements. She´s beautiful. She´s adorable, isn´t she? You can find her in Firmhand, Shadow Lane, Dallas Spanks Hard, etc




































Kailee: AA gal who seems to be a hard woman, she doesn´t gesticulate usually, but of course her soberby increases the power of spankings she receive. You may watch her at Realspankings and its synergy. She also shoot videos for GBS under a pseudonymous, Christine































Annabel Lee:OAnother beautiful Spankee who come down by the hand of Clare . You can find her in Clare Fonda´s spanking sites.





























Amy Denison: She´s a great spankee, who never shows her bottom completely. She always covers it with a thong, in her own words, because nobody must see what she has between her legs. Will the reason that makes her videos interesting be? I believe that everyone hope she drop her panties sometimes. She has only work for FirmHand





Clare Fonda: Is not only her attractive maturity, neither being an excellent swith, nor being a producer of 3 companies, nor nor bringing up the most beautiful spankees, she´s simply one of the greatest starlets in the spanking scene
She´s is the boss of a synergy of 3 companies. Previously She has worked with Chelsea Pfeiffer and Shadow Lane. She also shooted for The Spanking Couple


As Spankee


As spanker



Alice Wonder: One of the newest girls of Clare Fonda´s spankees factory. She starred the "Gone with the wind" spanking movie, Exclusive Education 1
The second part of this movie is also avalaible now




Annie (GBS): A pleasant red-head who´s a classic spankee of Girls Boarding School . I like very much her child attitude




And Finally I leave the spankee number ten, at your own choice. No matter if you don´t know her name, Post a link of her photo, and I try to say to you her name.
My best regards to all of you

8th August: World Spanking Day

Autora: Ana K. Blanco

Surely most of you are wondering where started the idea to set “The Spanking Day” on 8th August.

Well, past year talking with the prestigious editor of “Azotes Y Nalgadas”, my dear friend Fer, we thought it would be wonderful to set a “World Spanking Day”and given that 8 is a number which seems a pair of buttocks, we thought that 8^th of August would be the best date to celebrate it.

The way to celebrate this day is personal and everyone must employ their imagination, and of course it depends on your mood. Maybe disciplinary spanking lovers will try to correct their students sending them to the corner, placing on their knees or ordering to bottom up!.

Erotic spanking lovers will try to find an excuse such as bad behaviour, mistakes, etc on his or her spankee for spanking her or him and then have a good sex session. I know too, more than one spanker that needs no reason to spank her spankee, because is his way to cuddle her, to express his love, and therefore it converts spanking in something wonderful and joyful.
I want to answer you a question like I did to Fer past year, What would you give to your spanker or spankee to celebrate this day?
I want to tell you an anecdote: past year I give as a present to my spanker a quilted paddle, but he didn´t like it, and of course He was angry and spanked me. I achieved my purpose, he spanked me to celebrate the day of the passion we love, because we are same faces of coin.

So that, dear friends, I invite you to celebrate your own spanking day, enjoy it and then tell us your experience.

My best regards to all spankos